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  • connie36
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    I’m interested to hear what Gabrielle has to say on this.

    Personally, I’d see what you can do to put your focus on building that core strength in class as well as trying some Pilates or other exercises as well. Like you, I find Bikram classes to be very good for my mental state, not just good for my physical body. So even if it meant modifying things a lot or sitting out a number of poses, I would see if I could come up with a way to do that and keep going. The key however is deciding that you are happy to work on those other things and let the exercises that bother your hamstrings go. If you can’t, and are just making yourself miserable wishing to do things you can’t, then don’t torture yourself.

    That said, I’ve heard some warnings on the dangers of “too much flexibility” as well. With my last knee surgery, they were modifying the physical therapy protocols to basically leave some stiffness in your knees permanently, in an effort to protect the joint. Meaning, whereas previously we worked to get my ~5 degrees of hyperextension back in my post-op knee to match the other one, there was someone saying well, maybe it’s better if you just get to 0 degrees, they don’t match and it’s not your natural range of motion but you might be safer with less flexibility. Same with regaining full flexion in my knees or doing full squats – the attitude became, well, what do you really need that for anyway? You don’t really NEED to squat down past 90 degrees. Just leave it stiff – your joints won’t be as loose.

    But in the years following that, I seemed to develop more and more stiffness and pain, and it was moving from my knees to hips to back. My personal theory was that these things are all interconnected. When my knees are stiff, I compensate by tightening up my hips and back – almost like I’m flinching and it travels through my body. Once they get used to doing that – everything starts feeling locked up and stiff. Ugh. That can’t be the answer.

    I DO understand that you must have strength with flexibility, not just flexibility. I think we need to develop/maintain flexibility while developing and maintaining strength to keep our bodies working properly.

    connie36
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    Hopefully that will correct it! They should be able to make corrections, give encouragement and stop distractions without creating a negative atmosphere.

    connie36
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    And, often, people are really either not working or aren’t prepared to suffer any discomfort whatsoever. My SIL is like that LOL. I’ve seen her yell at physiotherapists, doctors, nurses, fitness instructors, you name it. She can’t bear to be out of her comfort zone for even a second and is quite “forward” in demanding that things cater to her. LOL!

    Haha – I can totally relate to this. My mother had to go to some physical therapy for her shoulder. Now, I’ve been to PLENTY of physical therapy and been brought to tears on numerous occasions from it, so I know it’s not easy. But she insisted that she not only couldn’t do physical therapy, but she thinks she has some genetic oddity that prevents her from being able to lift weights or do any serious exercise at all. “You don’t understand, when I lift weights, my muscles get sore the next day!” [em]No, really? [/em] My sister also follows along with this, insisting that she has asthma. “Since when? Have you seen a doctor?”, I asked? “Well no, (after years of no physical activity) I tried to go for a run. And my lungs BURNED. Obviously I have asthma and should not ever run again.” Sigh. No amount of discussion (or tales of friends of mine who have asthma but manage to run marathons) will convince them that this discomfort they are describing is something that everyone goes through, especially if they are starting a new workout program when they are out of shape.

    I can only imagine the two of them in hot yoga. The teacher would be the one complaining of being yelled at.

    connie36
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    I’d certainly let them know that you’re unhappy.

    connie36
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    in reply to: stress fracture #8337

    When you see your ortho, I’d ask about it, but I’d also ask for a referral for physical therapy. Even if you only go once, it’s an opportunity to talk to a specialist who could help you figure out what yoga poses are safe to keep doing and which to avoid. Your ortho, on the other hand is only going to have a few minutes to discuss it with you and is more likely to give you a quick yes or no, or “stop if it hurts at all” type of thing, which isn’t nearly as helpful. With a PT appointment, you’d have an hour or so to really discuss details, demonstrate poses/modifications, etc.

    connie36
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    in reply to: Night Sweats #8312

    How much water are you drinking overall on a day you went to yoga?

    connie36
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    I would love it if I could actually take classes from you or one of your trained instructors because all the extra training sounds wonderfu, but that’s not an option where I live. Luckily, I’ve been quite happy with my studio!

    I will say that I’m lucky to have some really good instructors who DO give personalized assistance in class on a regular basis, help before and afterwards with questions, etc. And it’s a rare class that doesn’t include laughter. So please don’t misunderstand when I say it’s sort of drill-sergeant-ish. Because some of the things that make it feel that way to me (as someone who spent years in the military) are just that we are following a precise routine every day (it’s not open to discussion or creative license to try new poses or new sequences – though my instructors don’t seem to have an issue with minor modifications), the dialogue is (necessarily) fast paced to fit it all in, and you are likely going to hear about it if you violate the etiquette of class (talking, disrupting class, showing up late, etc.) Some other types of yoga classes are practically a social event or a day at the spa by comparison. Even the bright lighting vs. a dimly lit room with spa music playing is different. But this is generally (IMHO) a good thing. It’s a moving meditation and while I would certainly like to be at the point where I can focus completely with people next to me chit chatting, the reality is that I can’t (yet). And most people probably can’t.

    I will say, in my first few classes where I heard sharp comments (No Talking!), it sounded shocking. My understanding of yoga was all rainbows and teddy bears, you know? Shouldn’t she be saying “okay class, lets try to keep the talking down and chat after class, please??” (And then repeating ad nauseum because no one takes her seriously?) But now it’s actually a comforting thing to me – it makes me feel like my instructor is there to protect the environment from unnecessary distractions and takes that responsibility seriously. I appreciate it.

    With regards to “shouting” – I do have some instructors who get loud now and then. This morning my instructor was loudly telling us to push harder, deeper, etc. (and getting louder and louder) – but the tone of her voice was pure joy and totally made me smile. That IS a warm and fuzzy to me.

    connie36
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    in reply to: anxiety #8299

    That’s an interesting point in terminology.

    It’s like – mentally and physically, there is a line that you should avoid pushing yourself across – it’s like that point where if you “struggle” to try harder, things start to go downhill rather than improve. Where you need to pause, regroup, and go back into it easier, with more calmness. That line doesn’t stay in the same place either, so it’s a day to day thing to see where you are at, mentally and physically. And to me it’s always a challenge to set aside the ego telling you that you “should” be able to do something and just accept where you are today.

    connie36
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    in reply to: anxiety #8292

    I can certainly see how it would trigger that sort of response, because one of the things I like about this type of yoga is that to me, it feels like excellent practice at dealing with the urge to panic, give up and run out of the heat, chug water through class, wipe away sweat, move into a position where I can breathe fully, etc. You are putting yourself in a situation where you are having to fight your instincts to continue your practice, and for me, that’s one of the things I want to keep improving on – my mental discipline. I know that in class, the more I relax, the more I focus on my breath and counter those urges to do everything else I shouldn’t be doing, the more it will become my habit to face stressors with calm instead of panic.

    But I’m not suffering from your condition, and I don’t really know what you’re going through personally so this is a very tough thing to offer advice on. And I’m not a doctor and don’t know if perhaps your medication is affected by your practice. I’m only hoping that perhaps in knowing that it’s not unusual to feel anxious, maybe that will help a bit.

    Best wishes!

    connie36
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    I’m pretty sure we are basically agreeing here.

    The “theory” from the study was just that restricting calories alone was unsuccessful in creating weight loss. Add in some exercise and it was successful. NOT starvation diets, certainly not the total absence of food as you would find in a hunger strike. That would certainly lead to weight loss, as well as other undesired side effects, up to and including death. The splitting hairs is just over how much restriction of calories is involved.

    Severely restricting calories (starving) would work, with or without exercise, but it’s not healthy. Restricting calories a reasonable amount and exercising a reasonable amount allows weight loss without shutting down your metabolism or damaging your body in the process. But obviously it gets harder and harder as you are closer to your body’s set point/ideal weight.

    connie36
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    I’m sure there are exceptions, but most anorexics that I’ve read about are not only severely restricting calories but are doing it in combination with obsessive amounts of cardiovascular exercise. Though quite obviously, people can starve to death – but our bodies are pretty good at adapting to avoid doing so. But the point is that without exercise, just restricting calories is making it extremely difficult to lose weight.

    But I agree that the metabolism shouldn’t be permanently damaged from VLCD – it just takes a careful process to bring it back to life.

    connie36
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    I’m not convinced there IS an easy way to lose weight. You’ll either have to radically decrease your intake and/or radically adjust your exercise. But that’s just been my personal experience (80 lbs lost and maintained for 18 months now)…

    Congratulations and good job!

    And no kidding on there being no EASY way. I was reading an article yesterday that was somehow touting the ease of “calories in – calories out”, just keep track and reduce calories and you’re all set. And then the same stupid article referenced a study where they overfed monkeys, which gained weight. Put some one a restricted calorie diet, some exercised, some didn’t. AND – the ones on the restricted calorie diet only – lost no weight at all. So much for calories in, calories out. If you don’t exercise as well, your body just adjusts its metabolism to deal with the reduced calories and desperately hangs on to the weight.

    And I am right there with you – any chemical based diet sounds dangerous. Look how many people have long term damage due to things their doctors once prescribed. No thanks.

    connie36
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    So that is basically what my instructor was telling me to do – bring my knees together at the top and bottom of the movement (where it feels just fine) but while I’m moving up and down, go back to knees over ankles/feet. Thereby avoiding the part of the movement that would be potentially causing pain.

    And I don’t know if they are all adding something, but every one if the instructors I’ve had have all emphasized that the “push until it hurts” dialogue is specifically excluded from anything involving your knees. Any pain in your knees = back out of the posture immediately.

    connie36
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    in reply to: Frustration! #8262

    Well, I’m getting to test my patience right along with you today. My knees had been feeling so good, and then I went skate skiing this weekend and that apparently did not agree with them at all. Yesterday they were so swollen, stiff and sore, just walking hurt.

    I did go to yoga this morning and just took everything that required flexing knees VERY gently and sat out a number of poses. I thought about staying home, but figured that if I could go, listen to my body and meditate through class, even standing still or lying in savasana if necessary, it would still be helpful. And that seemed to work well – I did have to fight off the disappointment of not doing what I wanted to be doing in class, but I committed to respecting where my knees were at today and this afternoon, just walking around is feeling somewhat better. And I know that patience and presence and such are probably more important for me in the long run than working on physical flexibility/strength/etc.

    It’s interesting because I have a friend who was recently insisting that any yoga is very dangerous. She hurts her back whenever she tries it because she can’t help but push too hard and feel competitive with everyone around her. I had to agree – that attitude is a recipe for injury if I’ve ever heard one. But this practice has been teaching me to set my competitive nature and ego aside. And in that way, I have to look at it as a blessing to have those days when my body is not cooperating because otherwise I wouldn’t likely be inspired to focus my practice on those types of mental improvements.

    I hope your hamstrings are starting to feel better. My husband had some issues with scar tissue and it took a good amount of physical therapy to get that healed up. Hopefully yours is not that bad.

    connie36
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    One of my co-workers and her husband tried that – it didn’t exactly work very well. Not many people have the self discipline to stay on a 500 calorie diet. Heh, and if they did, they probably wouldn’t need such drastic measures for weight loss anyway, right?

    And I can’t even fathom the idea of having the energy for hot yoga (or any other exercise) on such a crazy restricted calorie diet. Ugh. Not for me, thanks.

    connie36
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    in reply to: Frustration! #8249

    Hamstrings are tough to heal, and in my experience outside of yoga they require some real rest time. I would suspect that you are pushing too hard (even if you think you are taking it somewhat easy in class) and not allowing your hamstrings to heal. Maybe you need to sit out of the poses that stress it or take more days off for a bit? I know that’s never what you want to hear, but rest is important too.

    How often are you going to class?

    I would also say it requires patience. I’ve been doing Bikram 4-5 days a week for about 3 months and I’m nowhere near even attempting toe stand due to my previous knee issues. You just have to be patient with yourself. A few of the instructors at my studio have had knee problems and reiterate that our studio owner took 3 years of practice just to get his butt to the ground in fixed firm pose. I have a laundry list of knee problems and they are gradually improving, but I’ve found too that it requires patience. If I push too hard, hoping to improve rather than listening to and accepting where I’m at, I set myself back and it just takes longer.

    connie36
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    So can you get your legs totally straight when sitting? Or is it just when standing?

    Have you had any knee problems? I’ve been through a number of knee surgeries and getting your range of motion back with leg extension is a major component of rehab. But I wasn’t sure if this was a problem in general or only in standing poses.

    connie36
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    Ah Half moon can be the most enjoyable! I always say, stretch your heart as far away from your belly button as possible, and bend, continue to do that with the breathing: inhale stretch, exhale bend.. nice long spine and open up the ribs and muscles and kidneys… and vertebra. Make sure the shoulders are exactly lined up, pull one arm with the lower arm for more stretch..good grip is essential. I have really grown to love this posture..

    This was also quite helpful – this morning I thought of stretching up and out to open up the vertebra on the inhales rather than just trying to relax over to my side and it felt very good.

    connie36
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    Our students take 4 Hot and 2 Yin and 3-4 flow.. a kind of percription for heathy hips and joints, and have grown by leaps and bounds as yoga practitioners. They are encouraged to take a month of Bikram for the foundation and then continue as they introduce other yoga forms.

    I had to look up Yin yoga, but it sounded interesting. I found another studio that offers it and gave it a shot last night, and then back to Bikram this morning – I definitely have to agree that those two disciplines work together very nicely. The crazy long pigeon pose and childs pose we did were, well, a challenge to say the least, and took all of my willpower to just keep breathing and relaxing into it when my brain wanted to quit. But this morning back at Bikram yoga, I was finally able to get my butt down to touch the ground in fixed firm pose and got my toes actually wrapped behind my calves on both sides of eagle pose – both of which were firsts for me. (I’ve been doing Bikram yoga for several months but have knee issues and tight hips).

    Anyway – thank you for mentioning that. I have a feeling I will mostly do the Yin yoga poses at home on my own since I have props and don’t need a hot room, and mainly because I can’t afford memberships to multiple studios. But it would be wonderful for more studios to offer both types of classes as yours does. It’s unfortunate the Bikram rules are so rigid about such things.

    connie36
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    Yes! I attended yoga class again this morning … my daughter in law joined me for the first time, she did amazing and loved it.
    Looking forward to tomorrow …
    Thank you Everyone

    It’s wonderful when you can have someone to go to class with you. A friend of mine just started and we now have an agreement to both go to the 6am classes on tuesdays and thursdays. That feeling that you’d be letting someone else down if you didn’t show up can be very motivating as well as just focusing on the benefits you get from it and reminding yourself that you want it! 🙂

    Congrats and I’m glad to hear you are enjoying it!

    connie36
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    Hmmm… not really, but you’re making me think I should really work on contracting my thigh muscles more, because I would love for that to happen!

    connie36
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    @ Wombatgirl: What an insightful post. I think your observation is bang-on, though it’s kind of sad that Bikram seems to breed dogmatic instructors (“teachers”) who won’t listen, lecture you, and make you feel bad about trying to honour your individuality. While the spirit of yoga in general is normally about relaxing, non-violence, becoming mindful of your body, and all that, Bikram yoga seems to foster the control-freak in all of us. Or maybe it simply attracts a different crowd? I know a few people (me included) for whom yoga was too boring before they came across Bikram – we needed the extreme, the challenge and the strict “do-what-you’re-told, switch-your-own-thinking-off.” In this sense I am very grateful to Bikram for making yoga appeal to people who may otherwise never have tried. But I have come to believe that part of the Bikram journey is actually starting to question that authority, and learning to listen to your body rather than blanket instructions. The danger of denying your own body’s needs are huge when you have to deal with such rigid, intimidating “teachers”. Kudos to you for sticking up for yourself! I do hope he’ll leave you alone from now.

    I agree – that sounds extremely frustrating, and it’s a shame that there are instructors who won’t listen when you have something that is obviously working for you.

    But romymuz – your post is interesting too. Because I think that there is a strictness to Bikram yoga that does appeal to me compared to other forms of yoga. (Of course, I’m lucky to have a studio that’s obviously relatively open minded!) But I think there is something beneficial for me in having a relatively strict routine and instructors who push you to keep trying. Because knowing myself, if I just tried to do yoga at home it would turn into a nice Pranayama and then 20 minutes of standing bow pulling pose, because I like it. Heh, and that’s obviously not what I need — those poses that I like the least are almost definitely the ones I need to work on the most. So having someone lead me in my practice who isn’t going to just let me weasel out of the things I need is definitely beneficial to me.

    Of course, then reading the story above, its quite apparent that there is a line to be drawn somewhere. We all have different bodies, and sometimes modifications make total sense (whether the instructor likes it or not). It’s a tough balance though. The best instructors (in anything) seem to have that knack for knowing who needs to be pushed (and how much) and who doesn’t (or who needs to be reined in before they hurt themselves pushing too hard). Some people aren’t blessed with that skill and I think it’s a tough one to teach.

    connie36
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    Hmmm… I must not have conveyed this very clearly because I’m not pushing through any joint pain (nor was he recommending that I do so). Just avoiding pain by momentarily breaking form to get through the part where I normally stop because it would hurt to push it at that point. I guess that is hard to explain. But what he was recommending was not to push harder, but to avoid the pain and get into the final pose an alternate way (which doesn’t hurt at all – it’s getting there properly that hurts). Maintaining the final pose where you are nearly sitting on your heels does seem to be doing my knees good. I just can’t get into or out of it without my hands touching the ground for a moment. (Though it seems to be improving…)

    Though FWIW – the years I’ve spent in physical therapy for my knees could be easily defined as “pushing through pain” with a combination of serious painkillers and then forcing things until you are in tears. Not really my favorite solution.

    connie36
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    in reply to: Bad Yoga Days? #8214

    It could also have to do with residual stiffness/muscle soreness, whether it’s from yoga or doing other things in your daily life. Or just not having the mental focus that you did during your previous class – letting distractions get to you.

    But I think just keeping in mind that progress rarely goes in a straight line is important. The more you expect yourself to do just as well or better than you did the time before, the harder it is do to so. I’ve noticed on occasion that I sometimes have breakthroughs in poses when I’m tired and expect nothing of myself – it helps me relax into a pose in a way I hadn’t previously (where I was apparently fighting myself and creating unnecessary tightness.)

    connie36
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    I just had to share my positive experiences with skin improvement.

    One of my co-workers has commented several times now on how great my skin has been looking lately (I’ve been doing Bikram yoga for about 3 months now) and today said that combined with the fact that I’ve just seemed happier since I started as well, she wants to give it a try herself. 🙂

    And the other day my husband asked what I’ve been doing that made my skin so soft lately. (Usually he’s the typical obvlivious guy to such things…) The answer – I quit using any type of moisturizer because of hot yoga. I used to put lotion on the moment I got out of the shower, but after realizing that lotion only made my feet and hands slip more in yoga, I figured I’d just quit using it and see what happens. And my skin is turning out to feel softer than ever before without using any products at all.

    It’s not a miracle or anything – I still have wrinkles and scars, but I definitely am not used to getting compliments on my skin! Not sure if it’s just sweating out gunk that had built up in my pores or forcing myself to stay more hydrated or what, but it’s doing something good for me beyond flexibility, focus, and the things I expected from this practice.

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